Puppy Lessons

Sweet Pesto, clueless as to why he always lives up to his name

While walking along the beach the other day with my two rescued pups, Sofi and Pesto (who constantly lives up to his name) I was thinking about life and as¬†individuals how our perception on “just being” varies.

Sofi merrily bounces along in life without a care,¬†along the beach, in the park, everywhere. People just¬†love her because in spite of her bow-legs, pigeon-toes and under-bite (but she does have a gorgeous tail that curls high over her back) Sofi is a clown, loving me, I¬†think, but loyal to no one but herself. I often fear that¬†should I forget to be a good mom, she would easily¬†take up with another who’s pastures seem greener.¬†Sofi’s cheerful independence is catching and it¬†makes me happy to be with her.

Pesto, on the other hand, is like Crazy Glue, I¬†can’t walk, talk, sit or work without his trying to get¬†on my lap, under my feet or stuck to my side. I can’t¬†pick him up without his trying to infect me with every¬†germ he has breeding in his long and slimy tongue. I¬†try to give Pesto the extra love he needs, but his¬†neediness and blatant insecurity makes me¬†weary. In other words, I do love him in spite of¬†himself, but Pesto weighs me down at¬†times.

Sofi’s Lesson: We each are unique packages, not¬†one like another. It is our inner package that shines¬†through with independence and a zest for life that¬†helps make us attractive to others. Having confidence¬†in that difference and realizing that it does truly make¬†us special allows us the freedom to be happy with¬†ourselves and honors the fact that we are comfortable¬†with who we are.

Pesto’s Lesson: Clinging vines belong on¬†wallpaper. Few things are more self destructive than¬†thinking that your happiness depends upon another¬†person, career goal or material object. This behavior¬†invariably produces a “Is that all there is?” emptiness¬†at the end of the rainbow. Realizing that your¬†acceptance of and belief in yourself is primary to how¬†you are perceived by others. You are special and¬†celebrate that!
©sandrahart2012