I recently have started vlogging in conjunction with my weekly blog here on WordPress. Easy for you, you might think. With all of my television background and time spent in front of the camera it should be natural. Yes? No.
For me, it has been an extreme learning curve.
Previously, I have been in front of the camera as an interviewer or newscaster. On television and film, I have always assumed my character and perhaps only small parts within that make believe I have found myself. All of this technique and experience is so much different than being just old me. Even on Romper Room I was a teacher and not really myself.
Time and again I have heard famous actors reveal how shy they really are, or how difficult it is for them to expose themselves as ‘real persons’. I kind of understood them, but now I really know what they mean. It takes a lot of ‘unlearning’ to expose the ‘real me’ in my vlogging efforts.
All of this brings me to wondering if any of us even in our sixties and beyond know who we really are. Are we defined by our careers, our race or sex, beliefs, age, our talents or our roles as parents, breadwinners, or whatever face or hat we put on in front of the mirror? Is that a reflection of what others see in us as to who we are?
These past few election weeks have been a real eye opener to me. A few Facebook friends that I thought I knew have shown such an ugly side of who they really are that they have shattered the mirror. I have been quite taken back at times. Hiding within the darkness of social media has enabled the worst in some people. Do they honestly see themselves and realize what image they are projecting? Do they know who they really are?
Previously, I always had confidence in knowing who I am, but vlogging has made me aware that maybe, after all these years I’m not so sure yet.
I do hope that some of you are further along with that than I am and are willing to help me along my way. Or maybe it is as Shakespeare has said,
So I am off on this new adventure and learning vlog by vlog. One advantage of talking to myself in front of the camera in an empty room is that at least I know somebody’s listening.
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6 thoughts on “Who Are You, Really?”
I’m a-listening! I’m on the same trip I think–for me, just have to keep making music.
We are both creative explorers. I met Nicki Chapman on our cruise. Great ‘many chapters’ stories shared with her.
Thanks for cotuirbtning. It’s helped me understand the issues.
Thank you for commenting. Genevieve. We are all on this journey together.
Hi, I’m 63 gave my whole life to my 3 kids. Single mom for many years. There grown have there own lives awesome adults I’m very proud of them. I feel like It’s taking me so long to find myself. I started a few things but financially I need to work a lot to finish paying for my house etc. I just found you and I’m so glad. I’ve had awesome friends dear to me but older than me with there wisdom taught me a lot and there for me. They have passed away now. I’m thankful for YouTube that I found you. Thank you. I am looking to see if u have something on confidence and finding myself. Can u recommend something?
I have done many on my channel. Start with this one. Thanks for reaching out.